Pamper your SELF......

     I used to believe when I was younger that it was wrong to spend money on yourself.  I had several jobs and I just felt that it was much more important to spend it on everyone else in my family.  While that is true when it comes to family, and thinking of OTHERS before your self.  The part I never actually got as a young wife and mother was NOT TO FORGET YOUR SELF.  I learned very quickly if you don't take care of YOU once in a while then not only do YOU SUFFER but your family will suffer.  So I learned what we call moderation in ALL things and I started to not only do something for everyone else in the family but to also do something that MADE ME FEEL BETTER!!!!!!!

     This can be a variety of things and NO, husbands don't get worried they don't have to COST a lot.  In fact, putting in a excellent word on husband and wife spending money on THEMSELVES, its pretty simple.  THE RULE IS...... WHAT EVER A SPOUSE SPENDS ON THEMSELVES THEY NEED TO AUTOMATICALLY LET THEIR SPOUSE SPEND ON THEIR SELVES.  This is one of the best rules to live by in any marriage, and it works.  In fact my husband is happy when I do something for me, which isn't alot trust me, but he knows it makes me feel better inside and he LOVES the extra hugs and kisses he receives and the SMILES on my face, and so do my children, I mean they get rid of MOM for awhile right? ha ha ha.......

     So today for me was a wonderful day for a mere $15.00.... I got my nails done.  Nothing feels better than having shiny fingernails and getting a hand massage thrown in also.  I was pretty excited to show my Hubby........ And on the POSITIVE SIDE OF LIFE..................... HE WAS SUPER EXCITED ALSO, I MEAN OF COURSE HE GOT THOSE EXTRA HUGS AND KISSES FROM ME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! xoxoxoxo